The new Children’s Commissioner, Rachel de Souza, said she wanted to hear concerns held by parents and children about the services offered to children and families, in her inaugural speech.
The statement, which was published on 1 March to coincide with de Souza’s first day as commissioner, said, “If you’re reading this, and you can think of an unmet need for a child you know about, the Children’s Commissioner wants to know. If you are a child, and you are thinking about writing to us, don’t hesitate.”
De Souza also called on child welfare organisations to work together to improve children’s outcomes, and said the commission existed “to help set a direction for you all, for us, working together, without fear or favour, in the interests of children and for the rights of children.”
De Souza’s appointment has sparked criticism from Parliament’s education committee. Her professional experience, much like current Children’s Care Review lead Josh MacAlister, stems from the education sector, and she has almost no knowledge of other sectors within the child welfare system.
Committee members raised concerns over de Souza’s ability to take on the role during the recruitment process last year, citing her lack of experience, and a lack of transparency within the recruitment process itself.
In a letter to education secretary Gavin Williamson, Conservative committee chair Robert Halfon — who did not vote on de Souza’s appointment — said that her evidence to the committee “highlighted several deficits in her knowledge and experience and she will need to address these as soon as possible” and “In particular, we were concerned at the candidate’s apparent lack of knowledge of some areas relevant to her new role. Key among these were in the fields of children’s social care and fostering and adoption, youth services, the youth justice system, child and adolescent mental health and the wider immigration system.”
Ofsted had previously criticised de Souza’s handling of Special Educational Needs (SEN) students, which the watchdog said involved a pattern by the Inspiration Trust — where de Souza has been the CEO — of off-rolling and excluding SEN children in order to ‘turn around’ the schools in her care. De Souza has denied the claims.
Despite these concerns, the committee found that de Souza was a “competent candidate”, and she has now taken up her role, which she will hold for five years.
If you’d like to get in touch with the commissioner to raise concerns about the child welfare sector or highlight a child in need, you can do so here.
Where do I start. I need a couple of days even months to explain. Lies, corruption, malipulation. Not just social workers but the iro’s.
[edited] social services need majorally investigating without you informing them so. You have to see how much they’ve lied and bent the truth and to all benefit them. Good luck, as there isn’t any trust in any of them, from anyone. So question is, what makes you think people are going to trust you.
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How do you give abusive fathers exactly what they want in court? Now my daughter has been manipulated into living with him after he was given so much time with her. He won’t even let me see her for Mother’s Day. He was accused of coercion, financial abuse, physical and emotional abuse , including towards his two step children. There was even death threats. My children have been totally let down by the system!!
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There is not enough support for children escaping domestic abuse. I myself have support from domestic abuse organisations, from the freedom programme, from support groups. I am lucky that we have support from Early Help (although my son is not able to engage with them due to trauma), but other than that my children just have me. I am not qualified in trauma, I am struggling to deal with my own trauma. I am not even able to talk to my children about what they have been through as they will be accused of being coached and their voices will not be listened to through the court process – which is extremely lengthy. By the time I am allowed to seek proper help and support for my children they will have been struggling to deal with their trauma for many months with no way of really understanding what happened to them – which means they blame themselves, or think much of the abuse was ‘normal’ or that they deserved it.
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Hi Anon, if you’d like to let the Commissioner know what you’ve posted here, you will need to contact her using the link provided in the article.
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Hi after my experiences of abuse and being removed as a child to them being in an abusive relationship as an adult there still is little support for children esp ongoing or trauma specific.
I founded http://Www.kaleidoscopic.uk for peer support which over the last 2 years is rapidly growing.
We want to implement effective support for children and also prevention in schools along with training all services, which we are developing especially as from April children will finally be recognised as victims in their own right!
We would love to discuss further with you.
Thank you
Vickie
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Hi Vickie, if you’d like to get in touch with the Commissioner, you will need to contact her using the link provided in the article.
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I’ve seen this post and would love to be able to speak to you as the local authority in my area are very corrupt
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Hi, and thank you for your comment. I’m not sure if you want to speak with me (Natasha, the founder of Researching Reform), or the Children’s Commissioner. If it’s me, you’re welcome to get in touch at Sobk13 at gmail dot com. If it’s the Commissioner you need, please contact her using the link provided in the article. Many thanks.
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What is of concern is the pivotal point of targeting of individuals and their children as a quieting technique in areas of campaign work and the stopping of. l refer to issues involving simply vast gathering of assets / finances . There is nothing so immoral as the delusional tactics of unravelling families to line the pockets of individuals set on criminal paths to destroy any in their way of Financial Enrichment . Maggie Tuttle was one such case, but in truth there are so many and no light at the end of the tunnel for these practises to cease . IF there is to be end of such devious travesty’s of justice , there needs to be 24 / 7 investigations of the highest measures possible to close off any more of such cases and evaluating to helping of the victims and their families already affected
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Hello and good morning I would like to get in touch with the commissioner due to the unrolling of the last 4 years that I’ve had to deal with social services would like it’s getting contact because they have legally tried to drop to my children out this is not right I’ve done everything in my power to get my kids back and I will not stop
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Hello, if you’d like to get in touch with the Commissioner, you will need to contact her using the link provided in the article.
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Investigate social service Cafcass because supporting fake allegations.
Kid’s and other parent get Hurt and destroyed.
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Hi, if you’d like to get in touch with the Commissioner, please use the link provided in the article.
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The judges in Family Courts have categorised all families that have had any dealings with CAMHS, or Social Services as trash, and don’t care if they destroy our families. It’s social engineering and classism at its worst.
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I totally agree.
we also felt like we were being treated as trash all through our 15 months of family court hell. we could see by the look on the social workers face she was enjoying every minute of the adversarial arena the LA created. it was like we were the Roman slaves being thrown into the arena against the gladiators. we had no change.
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I also believe there is a Class problem within the family courts.
i doubt there are any Judges or Barristers from a working class bachground.
generally we are looked down on due to not having a Oxford or Cambridge education.
further evidence of this problem resides in the entertainment industry.where recent studies done since 2015 showed that only 12% of people working in Tv, Film & Radio were from a working class background.they said its mostly dominated by the middle class.
but this is nothing new. just look back to the storied of Charles Dickens where the lower class had the worst quality of life and courts were quick to dish out harsh punishments for petty crimes of stealing food from market stalls etc.
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Hi there [edited]! It sounds like you went through a very similar experience to us in the Family Court system. The solicitor representing the LA was a total bigot, and the solicitor that Social Services recommended to my poor daughter was totally biased in favour of the LA and was only in it to get the legal aid. She had no interest in obtaining justice for my daughter and only wanted to drag out the case to make more money for herself. Disgusting. The judge was on old snob who was totally out of touch with the real world. My daughter and I really wanted to see these evil people dead, and our prayers seem to have been answered when they have now all been subjected to living under the threat of Covid-19, and hopefully some of them will now have succumbed to it.
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Can’t say i blame you for saying what you did.
we had the same experience where pretty much everyone involved in the court process was biased to the LA. and yes we knew early on that they had already made up their minds yet they dragged the case on for 15 months. obviously to milk the Tax payer via the very naive legal aid system. they dont bother to do any research to see what parents think about the service they got. they just pay the money out to these leaches and say nothing.
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You know there must be many other law abiding citizens who have been subjected to a gross miscarriage of justice because the system is bent. I was totally unaware that the UK could violate people’s human rights and get away with it until we inadvertently got caught up in the system by seeking ‘help’ from CAMHS. I found peace of mind by listening to this https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J9s2hp9i680
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Last June/July my 8 yr old girl was removed from my house,What gets me they’re was no mention today they was visiting?My little girl was due to be picked up so [edited] my daughter SW went and picked her up from school and the boss off SW had came in [edited] they said was we are taking [edited] as your house is untidy,Now nobody knows they’re child like they’re mummy does,then [edited] asked if she could go up to [edited] bedroom I had no problem as we was throwing out the old toy,s & clothes and waiting for a charity to come and pick the goods up but little did I know [edited] went into our bedrooms even though she told me it was [edited] room she was needing to see,But she went into my bedroom where I had clothes to go in the bags for charity and she came across a clean Sanitary towel as I’m 52 and haven’t had a period since having [edited]
At the hearings & lack review I feel intimidated,humiliated,getting called a liar ,they never say anything positive about myself & [edited]
I d like my daughter removed from her brother’s care and the 1st contact my little girl had no underwear on and I wasn’t happy and had brought this up with other SW [edited] and she just said oh she may have forgotten,I told [edited] her clothes should be set out for her in the morning and says her brother is very strict with her,when we are at contact the day she didn’t mention but her arm,s & shoulders was covered in bed bug bites,As any mother I was very upset,But this [edited] didn’t say a thing as she’s very young and to me she isn’t experienced enough,thank you [edited]
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Thank you for your comment, and I’m very sorry this has happened. If you’d like to tell your story to the Commissioner you will need to use the link added into the article above. I would also invite you to ask someone to help you with your message, so that it reads like a summary of your case, with information set out in the way you would put a case forward, rather than a story. I hope this helps.
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Anne Longfield the previous commissioner had plenty to say about protecting children in the care system but when i challenged her about our Sons case she declined to get involved. even though the website clearly stated they have the power to speak to children in care at a place away from the placement. when i quoted this she still ( just like Govt officials ) slithered round the issue and did nothing for our Son who we have not seen for 6 yrs.
i told her they are a waste of taxpayers money and should be shut down.
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I just filled out the form but when i pressed send it just sat there saying “Processing” and did nothing.
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Same here.
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I came across this petition regarding giving children and parents automatic rights to equal contact after separation https://petition.parliament.uk/petitions/552465; do you think that this is an option before us
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The Closed Family Court system and Local Authorities together have a cast iron system for removing babies from their birth mothers and promoting the ‘for profit’ business model of Adoption Agencies. I fell into the trap of going to CAHMS for help when my daughter had teenage behavioural problems, and they were able to use notes taken at the time 10 years later in a Family Court. My advice to anyone is to NEVER ask Social Services for help. Always go to friend or relative for help.
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Dear families, I reached out to the Children’s Commissioner on Twitter this afternoon to let her know there was a problem with her Contact Us page, and she replied saying she would look into it. I took a screenshot but can’t share it in the comments section. If you’re on Twitter you will be able to see my tweet and de Souza’s reply.
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Do you know if de Souza’s Contact Us page has been fixed yet? I don’t want to waste my time again typing in my question. Thank you.
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I don’t know Andrew. I’d just test it out if you want to go back by writing your comment, but making sure you keep a record of it first, either in a file or an email, so you don’t have to keep re-writing it if the site hasn’t been fixed. I will ask her on Twitter now.
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Hi Andrew, the Children’s Commissioner says their tech team are looking into it now. Will try to get another update shortly.
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Hi Andrew, she says it should be working now. Let me know if you have any problems.
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Thanks Natasha for looking into this and getting back to me. Cheers for now.
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Need a good support net work for CHILDREN/YOUNG PEOPLE / ADULTS/FAMILIES living with FASD. The whole system has failed many families like mine. No support,no respite , no young carers support, no school support, no social work support, police dont understand the issues we face and sometimes leave or kids vunlerable in society, ( one percent in my local town after my daughter was targeted by undesirables using her. Told me that he would have me arrested if I went to the house she was being held and also insisting he was not going to do anything she was 15 at the time ) the lack of any support or services has distroyed my family.( my middle child refuses to even speak to me let alone come to my house. I havent seen my 4 yr old grand daughter in 3 yrs. All due to the lack of support. He feels that because my adopted Daughters behaviours had pushed his needs out .which I can understand . I tried to treat all my kids equally . But again because of the lack of support and respite quality times with my birth sons were lost . On controlling my adopted daughters behaviours) this happens in many FASD Families all due to the lack of services and services not being Educated in what FASD is (FEATOL ALCOHOL SPECTRUM DISORDER, Neurilogical Brain Damage caused by Alcohol consumption while in in the Womb. This condition is 100% preventable . If everyone is educated on it . Starting at primary 7 sex education classes. But support and education is desperately needed for all people living with FASD .
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My dyslexia has kicked in . ( percent supposed to say Sargent )
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I don’t like the way social services I suppose to rebuild families rebuild women but all I doing is tearing us apart I’ve got a daughter that I haven’t seen in nearly 3 months because of this covert wrong but yet she hasn’t seen on her family she’s having troubles at school all really middle of court proceedings so I can discharge my [edited] so she can come home with me instead I got a positive parenting report and now social Services are not back in me they not letting [edited] come home so we have to take it to the judge Bates from Canterbury Family Court he’s actually very fair and I would love him to give me my kids back and to hopefully making the changes that I mean
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Ok just submitted my email again and this time it went through.
this is the confirmation message i got.
“Thank you for contacting the Children’s Commissioner for England.
While we appreciate you getting in touch, we are unable to respond to all correspondence due to the very high volume of emails we receive and limited staff capacity. We will always respond to emails directly from children.
All correspondence is read by a member of the Commissioner’s Policy Team. We will be in touch if we need more information from you.”
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Hi Keith! At least you got a confirmation message. I got nothing back at all, and I don’t expect anything to change with the corrupt closed Family Court system any time soon. There is too much money in it, and it’s a way for class system to practice their social engineering unfettered.
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Hi Andrew,
try re-submitting your message.
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Would like them to get I touch with me urgently.
Children don’t have a voice in care at all I know this for fact . There has been abuse the children when and if they survive it and find someone who is willing to voice their concerns in this case the mother and family and community who witnessed the injuries. Then to be further victimised and harmed then for the mother to be victimised and bullied just because trying fight for a child’s rights to be free from harm and have concerns taken seriously with all evidence and for it to be shut down! Yes the complaints and all shut down the voice of a child SHUT DOWN!!!! This goes on often and often abuse in care is covered up . Why ??? Why victimise the child after speaking out??? What hope have children who are abused and not listens too or no rights given in care ??
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I know how you feel, they did the same thing with our two sons for the past 6 yrs. referrals to Cyps & Nyas declined by social workers and complaints dismissed. children are left to suffer without a voice by local authorities and the schools back them up. if i had my way they would all be rounded up and Jailed for crimes against humanity.
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Can you tell me why so many children in the fostercare system are alienated and manipulated away from good parents. Allegations of fii in the SEN community are based on lies and fabrication in social workers reports which these reports are put to judges with no evidence based on probability . Parents then lose there children when parents have struggled to get a diagnoses even when a diagnosed has been medically provided it is overused by a social worker who has no remit in any medical qualifications.The child is removed from all their family and told lies that they wernt cared for , mom dad can’t look after you no gifts , cards letters are accepted , parents told child no longer wishes contact or communication. Is it any wonder the child feels let down and isolated being put in multiple placements to be abused ,hit and sexually abused . Don’t tell me it doesn’t happen because my granddaughter who was 5yrs old and is now 9 has gone through these atrocious situations. Please please look into fabricated illness is is being used and is on the rise.
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Thank you for your comment and I’m so sorry you and your family have been through this terrible experience. You will find that we cover all these issues on the site, and have very serious concerns about child removal in the UK and elsewhere.
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“parents told child no longer wishes contact or communication.”
This is a common textbook trick used by the SS. they did it to us 6 yrs ago and we have not seen our two youngest sons since. they also excluded us from any involvement with the schools using lies. the school head told us they were told we did not hold full PR when we did. their unlawful actions are based on lies and fabrications perpetrated by LA social workers and team managers.
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We lost our two well cared for loved children, because we asked for help and support for our daughter who has severe learning disabilities, global development delay, and social and communication difficulties. Instead of our daughter receiving the support she is entitled to under section 17, she got punishment from the system, lying social workers, did everything in there power to remove my children, that was there only objective, care orders are handed out like parking tickets, just rubber stamped by judge’s in the corrupt family courts. The current chlid protection system is child abuse in it’s current form, children are trafficked for profit.
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I’m incredibly sorry to hear about what happened to you and your family, it happens all too often. Thank you for your courage in sharing your experience.
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