As we approach Christmas, Researching Reform would like to thank our readers for their incredible kindness, and their support of other courageous families who came on to the site to share their stories this year.
We feel honoured to host this community, and continue to be inspired by the children, mothers, fathers, and extended family members whose grace under unbearable pressure is astounding.
Researching Reform would also like to thank everyone who filled out the Children and Families Truth Commission survey, which would have been emotionally draining and an act of courage for many.
As we do our yearly roundup of the content on the site, we can see what continues to matter to you. Themes around mental health, forced adoption and mothers’ treatment in the courts were top of your list this year.
Most-read articles included “UK Family Courts Are Harming Children’s and Parent’s Mental Health”, “Victims of recent and non-recent forced adoptions invited to Parliament,” and “Top Court Finds Judge Bullied Mother Into Accepting Care Orders For Her Children.”
Perhaps the most left-field stat for this year is the digital platform which saw the greatest number of shares for Researching Reform’s content. Tens of thousands of shares were made on WhatsApp, a surprise development, followed by Telegram, another surprising platform, and then Facebook. LinkedIn also featured, while thousands of shares were made through Reddit and email.
And on a lighter note, the award for the most comments went to Dr Manhattan, with more than 1,600 posts. A truly impressive score, closely followed by Ian Josephs with more than 1,300 comments on the site. Thank you, gentlemen.
This project could not exist without all of you, something we say every year and mean it, and we remain humbled and deeply grateful for your wisdom and insight.
We know this is a deeply traumatic and challenging time for parents who have lost a child to the care system or through other forms of loss, and although we realise nothing we say can take away the pain, Researching Reform is with you, and thinking of you.
We started this project for you, and it will always be for you.
We wish you strength to carry on and a much better year ahead, and we send our love to every child in care this Christmas,
Natasha (Researching Reform) xxx
Thankyou natasha for hearing our voices and making us not feel alone in this horrible situation, forced adoption still continues nomatter what anyone believes,its happening.
Yes this time of the year is hard without our children but we won’t give up, we will continue to soldier on and one day we will win because the truth will be out there ,the system tore our families apart but they will never take our strength nor our fight to hold them responsible for stealing our children for “possible future harm?? Punishment without crime?? Its corruption,and its carrying on and has to stop now.
Thankyou natasha for all your time and effort we appreciate everything you do.
Have a merry Christmas 🎅 🎄 ❤️ 😊 xxxxxxxxx
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True Hunterforest (above) ;so true !
Abolish “Punishment without crime ” (Taking children from parents who have never committed a crime involving children )
This would be the best possible Christmas present for thousands of parents all over the country !
Natasha’s efforts with this great column may finally help to bring this about ………….
Merry Xmas to all……..
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Thanks for my name flag in the INDY ….Thank your good work and caring soul to all ….
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I would Just like to say thank you for the little award Natasha. i’m actually very surprised. i thought Ian Josephs would have been the highest by far. I feel like Bob Cratchit on Christmas day Lol. I’d like to wish everyone on this site a very merry Christmas and best wishes for 2023. As victims of the SS and family courts i do hope we all find peace and resolution before we leave this world.
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It would be great to be able to make a difference and stop this from happening, it’s been going on for years and no sign of stopping. It is my belief all mothers/parents are bullied/threatened/blackmailed into accepting care orders etc. Until the powers that be – ie MPs in particular – take serious action, it will continue. Also, local authorities and other bodies to stop supporting and back those social workers etc who they know lie, fabricate evidence and twist what is told them to suit their own agenda, denying they’ve done anything wrong, especially when presented with evidence.
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Spot on Bridget Doman!
every victim here have similar stories about what you have said.
Its happened to us all ,nobody can help us ,tryed everything…paid thousands for someone to help us to be heard but nothing…and what’s hard is these solicitors,mp,s etc know the truth but don’t want to help us families,they lie too and probablyget paid to make us loose..the conclusions from the courts are final? Lies from so called professional child abusing theives..but they are causing injustice!
Not only to us but our children…
This is what we cannot understand and won’t because we all know its all lies…money making scam..child trafficking…money making scam that nobody believes ,this is going on right now…it happened to us…and now historical “forced adoption ” is all coming out for an apology?we dont want an apology, we want our children back!,maybe this historical forced adoption be the start of something for us that have been through recent forced adoption…
I don’t know but all I know is what keeps me going is don’t give up!
Fight fight fight…never be gagged..the lies will and are slowly coming out.
This is truth and the truth will win.
I will not stop till my last breath till my 3 grandchildren come home and those who caused my family and grandchildren injustice will be exposed.
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“Votes for women” ,”abolish slavery” “decriminalise homosexual acts”” legalise abortions”
These were all slogans that caught public imagination as they explained what was wanted in shortly and concisely.
We need something similar and I suggest “stop punishment without crime ” as a possibility though there may be better ideas from others.
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Merry Christmas to all, I hope and pray with all my heart and being, that we can next year 2023.
Aim and accomplish to abolish forced adoption, and kick it into an oblivion, never ever to return again.
As this evil, draconian to say the least, crime against humanity, which has and continues to devastatingly destroy and crush so many family’s, something so unbearably hurtful that it makes it hard to carry on, or even sleep at night.
But at the same time Natasha you have helped us all a lot by;
Creating this platform and allowing us to express ourselves, much appreciation to you Natasha for that.
Which indefinitely, helps us deal with our severe pain, suffering, and fight against a criminal system that has taken our children criminally.
Again, kudos to you Natasha, may the almighty creator bless you for you work and the continuing work you do, the only words I speak into the atmosphere in support of you, is words of peace, love and guidance.
Oh Darbo!, Oh Darbo!.
(Meaning Glory to God)
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Nobody with a heart wants to be a social worker but that means
GREAT NEWS for the shareholders in the agencies !!
Councils are forking out £227MILLION a year on agency staff to cover for nationwide shortage of children’s social workers – up by 40% since 2017
Children’s social work agency spending rose by more than a third last year
Locum staff costs rose from £164.5million in 2017 to £227million by early 2022
Providers left fearing black hole in their finances as temporary staff costs rise
By JACOB THORBURN FOR MAILONLINE
PUBLISHED: 11:27 GMT, 28 December 2022 | UPDATED: 12:06 GMT, 28 December 2022
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I think its widely believed that the rapid removal of children from naïve and vulnerable parents is financially motivated but to date nobody seems to have gathered evidence that would stand up in court. how the Inter-agency adoption fees have not been looked into is mind boggling. especially as council SWs are at their moist aggressive when seeking adoption orders.
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Yes of course the removal of children from their parents is financially motivated.However there can never be “evidence that would stand up in court” since no laws have been broken !
Until the law is changed to forbid removal of children from parents who have committed no crimes against children and who want to keep them , the cash will flow to the agencies in ever greater amounts every year.
Thus, these villains can quite legally continue to “Cash in ” !
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