The latest child welfare items that should be right on your radar:
- Adoption campaigner criticises apology for ‘historic wrong’ of illegal birth registrations (Ireland)
- The Holyrood Baby: How the pandemic and poverty are shaping young lives (Scotland)
- The Schools Bill aims to finish the Gove revolution, but a homeschooling register will be the landmark change (Britain)
The greatest gift Kirsty has, and for Kirsty, is HER MOTHER 24/7/52.
Two years with her mum during the Pandemic, is an indelible marker of positivity,
Parental Separation, is Family Devastation. Adoption proves that.
I was a registered NNEb((Scot) Nursery Nurse and Pre five learning facilitator.
Having contact with her father, is such positivity.
Adults must be strong and manage difficult relationships with decorum,
Kirsty when an adult, will remember the polite and considerate contact between family.
Negative contact and relationships, will have a negative indelible impact.
Professionally Trained Family Support and counselling/ monitoring is invaluable and important and accessed through the years.
That being said, should only be accepted as family therapy, where verbal or physical threats are ZERO TOLERANCE.
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Historic 😡 Is he having a laugh! Are they all robots with no mind of their own with an ounce of common sense. The narrative so needs changing on that. It’s how the public are been fooled and misled but I’m not blind to this fact!
I’m from England and found out my son had no adoption certificate on record just before he reached 18 so I must have retained parental responsibility, which is nothing short of bloody kidnap to me and fraud!
Even worse, I got sent a copy of a fake one AFTER finding this out. Took it back to Court who did NOTHING. Criminals!
Xx
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Dear Mum, ( natural mum/always mum).
Claim your rightful identity.
They took our babies,
They CANNOT take our motherhood.
I refuse to be addressed as a ( birth mum)
I so feel your anger.
Historic forced adoption should be titled, ( continued forced adoption. )
Historic in the fact our babies were taken due to our
UNMARRIED STATUS.
No benefits were afforded us ( welfare rights )
Our human Rights 1945-8 denied us
Our legal rights denied us
Our civil rights denied us
1945-1970-recorded. And continues today.
Read :- Dian Wellfare of Australia
Author of book.
‘ Sanctioned Evil’
there you will find bonafide research
Of how historic forced adoption came to be known,
In conjunction with Historian, ‘ Regina Kunzel ‘
Her book. , Fallen Women, problem girls, the professionalisation of
Social Work, has it all there.
SS as we know it is a PSUEDO SCIENCE Organisation.
borne from the unproven research of
Then Science of Illegitimacy
Judge Benjamin Lindsay, quotes,
unmarried girls are,
Societies FILTH,
feeble minded,
sexually deviant,
Neurotic
unfit mothers,
should be PUNISHED
by taking their babies for adoption.
My son that was taken for adoption,
He searched
TEN YEARS
His file was 8” deep, full of lies and deceit.
Trying to find me.
He was a commodity, sold to the highest bidder
With worthy credentials of his heritage intact.
He is a lawyer in England,
He went to court got his adoption papers.
Was in shock at the lies and deceits he found.
The Sally-Anne, had false details on my admission and subsequent incarceration.
into
The home for unmarried mother in Newcastle.
My son searched with the material he had at hand and got nowhere.
Then he contacted the Scottish Contact Register.
The rest is history.
Truth AND JUSTICE MUST PREVAIL
No more lies and deceits
Adoption as we know it must be abolished.
Herald in Family Preservation.
I could write a book.
I have been involved first hand at family preservation,
It’s wonderful, the families I was involved with, are now visiting me with their families.
It is the most humbling and memorable joy to in life to witness.
FAMILY PRESERVATION.
(((((( have a good day )))))) mum))).
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Wow to the Irish Adoptee Campaigners… Totally right of course about authentic records (they do not have them) and the need for far more serious remedy … Like ( I would suggest) easing Revocation of Adoption for Adoptees so they can walk away from the lifetime colonial mentality that Adoption is merged within .Confusing child care with property ownership of a child.
Luckily the DNA Democracy is on it’s way now insofar as people can and do link to relatives that way .. It’s not perfect for sure but then nothing is …
However the right to have one’s own tattered original identity is primal and authentic and one’s story too if you can get it – even if it’s minimal – is a partial place to rest one’s hurt soul ..
The more I learn about Adoption the more I see is it conflates child care with “dis-entitlement” to one’s bio-story and original family despite “Open Adoptions” …. Lots of Adoptees feel mentally chained like slaves to the “permanency of effect” conferred upon them by priestly courts marrying them to Adopters and slaving them mentally for a lifetime .. Slaving ? Too strong you think ? Then try revoking Adoption as an adult in the UK and restoring your simple birth-title .. Only slaves do not have the right to name their own souls back to their origins properly ..
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Michael Gove MP as the “I” says casts a long (crow-like) shadow over education policy .. And I would add over Adoption and Looked After Children policies …
As an Adoptee himself I am sure he over-projects his own elitist successful life and believes it’s a wonderful policy-life . After all, “Look at me ” … .But, what’s notable about “Gove-effects” Is people are “goved-upon” by him .. Contraryness does not matter … Control it and whack it …. Adoption currently is a mess to look at with high numbers of disturbed Adoptees not in education or training or employment compared to their non-adopted peers (AUK’s “Barometer” Studies) … Many have mental ill health effects.
Parents (usually lower income groups) are mistreated to “Forced Adoptions” more .. Gove himself knows about his Scottish birth mother but has never wanted to meet her. Freedom is given to privateers to run unregulated homes for profit for looked after children who are barely looked after but are used by pedo-gangs and County Lines networks for sex and drugs …
Centralisation mixed up with uncomfortable privatisation and is the answer to Govery … Gove it … Control it like all the stupid rules over-projected by schools about uniforms and style of shoes and colours of jumpers etc .. Fascism on kids is typical of certain class types who see kids as performative vehicles ..Govery is everwhere..Fine that parent now for taking Mary on holiday .. !!! Whack !! ..
Some people clearly are Homeschooling now to get the fekk away from the State Govery.. Ahhhh but now it’s : UP PERIGOVE … Yer spotted and will be threatened by centralization more ..The torpedoes are being readied ….Your family name is on them ..
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Gove is everything thats wrong with the Govt.
as you say he was adopted himself but the most troubling thing is that he decided not to seek out his birth parents claiming he didnt want to upset his adoptive parents. pathetic excuse of a man.
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