Welcome to another week.
The Joint Committee on Human Rights (JCHR) has said it wants to listen to the experiences of mothers whose children were taken from them during the 1950s, 60s and early 70s – but has said it will also welcome anyone with “relevant lived experience,” leaving the door open for families who have experienced current forced adoption practices in Britain to attend.
Additionally, the committee said it would like to hear from people who were adopted, adoptive parents and social workers.
An estimated 250,000 women were forced to give up their babies during a period in the 20th century which spanned more than forty years in Britain because of a government policy which held that unmarried mothers were unfit to parent. The policy led to the forced removal and adoption of at least 500,000 babies in England and Wales between 1945 and 1975, according to the Office for National Statistics.
Current child protection policy in Britain still enables forced adoption (rather than consensual adoption), which allows the state to remove children from their families without parental consent, and is the predominant form of adoption in England and Wales. While parents no longer have their children removed from their care for being unmarried, some social work experts believe the vast majority of children today are removed from their parents for living under the poverty line and not because parents are wilfully neglecting or harming their children.
The impact of forced adoptions, whether recent or non-recent is the same, and is extremely damaging to both children and their parents, making the voices of children and families impacted by current forced adoption practices essential in any discussion about the issue.
Research has shown that forced adoption can have long-term psychological effects on children. These include complex and pathological grief, loss of identity and attachment issues, anxiety and attachment disorders, personality disorders, and symptoms of post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD).
A significant number of parents treat the removal much in the same way as they would the death of their child, mourning the loss over a lifetime. Research has shown that mothers are at heightened risk of suicide, and many parents report feeling numb and unable to live a normal life after experiencing forced adoption. Parents in Britain today also report feeling shame and a sense of judgment after a forced adoption, just as women from the 1950s, 60s and 70s reported to the committee.
The event, which will take place on 27 April, follows the publication of evidence by the committee which it says includes “a large number of personal testimonies from mothers who were separated from their children, and people who were separated from their mothers as babies.”
The report is part of the commission’s inquiry into the forced adoption of children of unmarried women between 1949 and 1976, which is looking specifically at whether the policy breached the right to family life, a human right enshrined in legislation by the UK.
The press release for the publication offers heartbreaking extracts of testimonies submitted to the committee. The testimonies in the release have been divided up into four headings:
- How unmarried mothers were treated
- Making decisions around adoption
- Attempting to establish contact
- Long-term impact
The roundtable will be held in Portcullis House in Westminster and hosted by JCHR chair Harriet Harman MP.
The committee is asking anyone who would like to attend to fill out this form which contains the following seven questions:
- How would you describe your involvement in the adoption process?
- Have you submitted evidence to this inquiry before (The right to family life: adoption of children of unmarried women 1949-1976)?
- Which UK region/nation do you currently live in?
- In which year did you go through the process of adoption?
- Which UK region/nation did you live in when you went through the process of adoption?
- Full name
- Special requirements when attending the event
You can email selcomengagement@parliament.uk to register to attend the event or to ask any questions about the roundtable.
Anyone interested in attending is asked to register their interest by 31 March 2022.
- Report: Ongoing legacy of historic adoption practices revealed in published evidence
- Register now for adoption roundtable event
- Why The British Government Won’t Apologise For Forced Adoption
- Mothers forced into adoption were given diethylstilbestrol to dry up their milk

Reblogged this on tummum's Blog and commented:
‘Reading this, you totally get us and have continued to research the subject of forced adoptions so much, it’s as though you’ve gone through our pain with us. You did not have to, but you do it because you are so passionate to support us all, because you have a good heart and you genuinely do care 💛❤️💯
You do it with consistency and I hold all my faith in you because of that and you’re so lovely 😘🙂 Xxxx’
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‘Reading this, you totally get us and have continued to research the subject of forced adoptions so much, it’s as though you’ve gone through our pain with us. You did not have to, but you do it because you are so passionate to support us all, because you have a good heart and you genuinely do care 💛❤️💯
You do it with consistency and I hold all my faith in you because of that and you’re so lovely 😘🙂 Xxxx’
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Just so touched by your message, thank you. You have been my source of inspiration for more than a decade, and my efforts pale in comparison to yours. I feel incredibly fortunate to know you, and the parents I have met along the way who like you are filled with endless courage and grace. I’m just a messenger, you and the thousands of parents and children who have survived this ordeal are the heroes. xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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I need support with a forced adoption and forced long term Foster. There is no.one out there that can help. Social services have destroyed my life and by the looks of it I’m not the only one.
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No, youre not the only one. there are thousands of us all over the country.
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(((( a wee hug)))) from a mum of forced adoption that took place 55 years ago. I feel your pain, I hear your cries, YOU are never alone, just a wee hit at the keys; and you will get a reply. This time of year is excruciating. But never forget you carry your little ones with you, their cells are in your brain, this has been scientifically proven, so take comfort our taken sons and daughters we not only carry them in our hearts but in our brain. Forced Adoption Scotland will always get back to you.
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I am in the same boat! Been trying to fight it for 6 years, there is no help, just makes me want to die!!
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Many of us victims of the SS and family courts have felt like this at times but the one thing that keeps us going is the thought that we will meet our children again at some point in the future.
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The current Inter-agency adoption fees paid to LA’s.
these fees will always have cause for suspicion and concern over corrupt LA activity surrounding forced adoption practice.
Click to access Interagency%20fee%20for%20LA%20and%20RAA%20England%202021-22.pdf
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I’m just one of many families torn apart by there child/ren been removed from there care and forced adoption was the result my girl just short of 5 when she was placed with here aps so it’s still very recent and don’t ever get better my love n hugs to all effected by this weather recent or years ago
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Dear Natasha, I was replying in-depth to this topic. I accidentally lost my reply, as I had a bad cramp. Is there any way I can retrieve my reply to this post, thank you. Kind regards .Mara.
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Hi Mara, I don’t have anything from you other than the comment above, I’m so sorry. xxx
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Thank you Natasha, when strength returns, I will try again
You are the salt of the earth, Natasha,
for giving us a voice.
Every blessing for 2023, as my baby was sold for xmas, I can never approach this period without chronic weeping and unfathomable sadness, and only deal with each day as it comes, and have HUGE EMPATHY for all seared by adoption. Mara.
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I’m so sorry xxxxx thank you for your kind words xxxxxxx
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I tried that too! They say it’s not in there remit to intervene, what they mean is local authority social services have more power than councils and police! Social services are there boss!! The law is messed up and powered by money and greed and will never change and family courts are paid by social services and is why there classed as a closed court!! It’s #legal kidnapping #legal abduction!!! And there’s nothing anyone can do!!
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I do agree that it seems the SS have more power than the council itself and even the police. all complaints to the police about social workers are very quickly dismissed. this is due to the safeguarding hub of the police who work closely with the SS. ironically its also this dept that deals with all complaints against s/workers. what is needed are whistleblower’s who worked for the SS. some of these people have popped up on facebook page “The secret Social worker” one such SW going by the name Mae Wallace admitted she had seen lies being told and seen fear tactics used to get consent from parents and vulnerable people being taken advantage of. i have the screenshot of this if anyone would like to see it. i cant seem to upload it on here as there is no upload file button.
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