Welcome to another week.
An online seminar looking at the stigma faced by mothers who lose children to the care system – and who often carry their children with them through body art – is taking place this month.
The event has been put together by the university of Lancaster’s Center for Child & Family Justice Research, and will be hosted by Lisa Morriss (CFJ) who will deliver a seminar for the Morgan Centre, University of Manchester, and Siobhan Beckwith, co-founder of Women Centre’s Mothers Apart- Common Threads Collective.
Lisa and Siobhan will share the initial findings of a pilot project funded by the Sociological Review. The page for the event says the researchers used “a narrative approach alongside arts-based visual methodologies to explore the inscription of tattoos with 8 mothers who live apart from their children. Highly stigmatised and often silenced through the scrutiny of state intervention and personal shame, these mothers carry images and the names of their children on their body in the form of tattoos.”
The page goes on to say, “For these mothers, this is a unique form of loss and trauma as their children are alive, but many mothers are not allowed to know where their children are living. The children are a ‘ghostly presence’; there and not there at the same time (Gordon, 2008). The loss is especially difficult during the pandemic when the mothers are desperate to know that their child is well.”
“The tattoo is a way of embodying motherhood; keeping their child(ren) with them – etched in their skin – until reunification. Thus, their tattoos mark past separation, present connection, and hope for future reunification with their child. The intimacy of tattooing your child(ren) on your body can be seen as a way of challenging the silencing that stigma brings; and enabling the telling of alternative stories.”
The seminar, which takes place on 28 April, from 3-4pm (UK time) is open to everyone and is free to attend.
To register for the seminar, click here.
For more details on the event, you can email Lisa at (firstname.lastname@example.org).
Siobhan Beckwith is co-founder of WomenCentre’s Mothers Apart- Common Threads Collective which takes a collaborative approach to increasing awareness of the lives of mothers who live apart from their children. She is the co-author of In our hearts: Stories and wisdom of mothers living apart from their children and co-editor of I had to dig deep, exploring the isolation experiences of mothers apart during the Covid 19 pandemic. Siobhan is currently studying for her doctorate at the University of Huddersfield exploring the mental health of mothers living apart from their children following removal.
Lisa Morriss is a Lecturer in the Sociology Department at Lancaster University. Lisa developed the concept of ‘haunted motherhood’ after her experiences as a researcher in the archives of the Family Court. She has published work on haunted futures in Imogen Tyler and Tom Slater’s Sociological Review Monograph on Stigma; and has talked about her experiences in the archives on the BBC 4 radio show Thinking Allowed in the episode on Stigma. Lisa received a Sociological Review Kick Start Award to fund the Marking Motherhood project.
Researching Reform apologises for its silence over the last two weeks as we’ve been working behind the scenes on an upcoming project, which we will unveil shortly.
keith brettwood said:
I’m not surprised the trauma of losing their children drives them to make a statement via tattoos on the body.
this is the result of a vicious cruel govt system of child removal that should have ended a long time ago.
Parliament and its dusty old law makers are so far out of touch with reality its frightening.
Spot on Keith.
I can’t think of a bigger waste of anyone’s time. This is a really situation that needs to end now and we have researchers talking about why people get tattoos. It’s ridiculous. Someone pays this lady to do this.