Forced Adoption – A Relative Phenomenon?

With the topic of forced adoption being addressed in the last few months in Australia in the form of an apology by several politicians in the country and most recently by Australia’s prime minister, Julia Gillard, it raises interesting questions for the UK about the practice of forced adoption and whether it remains an appropriate phenomenon.

Forced adoption is the practice of removing children from parents without their consent, and then placing them with adoptive parents, with reasons for removal often being culture and time-specific. It is not practiced in many countries and is in decline. In Australia in the 1970′s forced adoption was used to remove children from unwed mothers and those who were deemed to have entered into inappropriate relationships. At that time, being pregnant and unmarried was an enormous taboo. Today in the UK, children are removed when the parents are deemed to be ‘unfit’ parents. In the twenty-first century, the argument for upholding the practice is rooted in a desire to protect children from harm, but is it an appropriate method?

Yesterday, Tim Farron, Lib Dem MP for Westmorland and Lonsdale asked The Children’s Minister, Ed Timpson this question:

“To ask the Secretary of State for Education what assessment he has made of the apology by the Australian Prime Minister for the past treatment of unmarried mothers and the previous policy of forced adoptions in that country; and whether the Prime Minister plans to issue such an apology for similar past practices in this country.”

Ed Timpson’s reply was this:

“The United Kingdom Government has not made any formal response to the apology made by theAustralian Government. The Government has no plans to issue a similar apology.”

In reality, the government cannot issue such an apology – because it still engages in the practice. But perhaps it’s time to review forced adoption, to ask: is there a better way?

 
Many thanks to Phil Thompson for alerting us to the question in the House of Commons.

New Lords Select Committee Set Up to Examine Effectiveness of Mental Capacity Act 2005 Launches its Inquiry Today

This update was posted just a little too late into our inbox, so you won’t be able to catch the first part of this inquiry live, if you missed it this morning as the session was at 10.45am, however This new Lords Committee have started their inquiry into  the Mental Capacity Act 2005 and you can access all the latest in this inquiry here.

But fear not if you missed the meeting this morning, as the re-run can be watched on the Parliament TV website. 

The Panel for this inquiry consists of:

  • John Hall – Deputy Director of Family Justice, Ministry of Justice;
  • Nick Goodwin – Deputy Director of Court Tribunal Fees, former Deputy Director of Family Justice, Ministry of Justice;
  • Claire Crawley  – Senior Policy Manager-Adult Safeguarding, Department of Health; and
  • Anne-Marie Hamilton – (acting) Deputy Director of Social Care Quality and Safety Branch,  Department of Health

Parliament website also tells us that:

The committee will question the above panel of senior government officials from the Ministry of Justice and the Department of Health, on whether the Act has been effective in empowering while also protecting those who may lack capacity to make decisions for themselves.

The Committee will ask what is being done to ensure the standards set by the Act are followed, what measures are being taken to tackle abuse in care settings, and what  impact the legislation is having on families and carers.

A call for evidence for this inquiry is expected towards the end of June.

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DadsHouse Offers a Unique Opportunity for Fathers – A Treasured Memory

Would you like to have your photograph taken by a famous photographer and maybe, just maybe, find yourself and your children being featured in some of the most beautiful and widely visited venues in the country?

It’s not every day that we get the chance to have our picture taken with our children by one of the country’s greatest portrait photographers, but that is exactly what DadsHouse are offering lone fathers in the UK.

Lone fathers are dads who are bringing up their children on their own, without the help of their partner, either due to separation, divorce or bereavement.

The Founder of DadsHouse, Billy McGranaghan was a lone father himself and chose to set up DadsHouse to help lone dads get the support and help they needed – support Billy was not able to find for himself as a lone father at the time.

As part of its highly successful “In Dad’s Shoes” Nationwide Photographic Tour, featuring photographs of lone fathers by renowned photographer Harry Borden, who has captured icons from the world of politics, to pop music and beyond, DadsHouse is looking for lone fathers and their children to take part in the exhibition by sitting for photos with Harry. As a big thank you, you will be able to keep a copy of the photo free of charge, as a souvenir of the day and most importantly as a treasured memory.

Harry Borden has photographed some of the most famous people of our time, including the late Baroness Thatcher, Tony Blair, Robin Williams, Charlotte Church and other icons from all over the world. He is a dad himself, to four lovely little people and the subject of lone fathers is one that is close to his heart. Harry is collaborating with DadsHouse on this special exhibition and they are thrilled to have such a talented and kind photographer on board.

If you are a lone dad and you’d like to take part in the exhibition and have your photo taken, all DadsHouse will need is your permission to use the photo in its nationwide exhibition and your contact details, so that they can arrange a day to take the photo, at a time that suits you.

You can contact Billy McGranaghan on his mobile: 07765 183 504 or you can reach him on Twitter at @DadsHouse.

You’re also welcome to leave a message for us on this post and we’ll put you in touch with Billy.

Stop Church Child Abuse – Press Release For A Call To Have A Public Enquiry

David Greenwood, who is a solicitor at Jordans Solicitors and chairman of  STOP CHURCH CHILD ABUSE, has very kindly sent us this press release which details a debate on child abuse being held by the General Synod and which Stop Church Child Abuse representatives have been invited to attend and which will take place on 7th July, 2013. The Press release also calls on the government to hold a much-needed public inquiry on the matter.

Researching Reform are passionate advocates of this work and we have often posted about it (for more content on this campaign have a peek here). We are pleased to see that the Church of England are addressing this issue and hope that the rather less pro-active Roman Catholic Church (which still refuses to engage on this issue), will follow suit.

We’ve added the press release below:

STOP CHURCH CHILD ABUSE!

 

(A call for a Public Inquiry into abuse of children and vulnerable

adults by Clergy in England and Wales.)

 

 

PRESS RELEASE – 17th June 2013

 

CHURCH OF ENGLAND SET TO ACKNOWLEDGE IT’S FAILINGS OVER CHILD ABUSE, TO OFFER APOLOGIES, AND PROVIDE A BETTER RESPONSE TO SURVIVORS.

(GENERAL SYNOD 7TH JULY 2013)

 

The STOP CHURCH CHILD ABUSE campaign (an alliance of clergy abuse survivors) has called upon churches and the government to hold a public inquiry into the extent of past child abuse within church organisations.

 

12 months of constant campaigning have resulted in the exposure of a hopelessly inadequate safeguarding system within the Roman Catholic church and the Church of England.

 

It is now beyond doubt that Bishops have engaged in dozens of cover ups and that child abuse reached endemic levels within these two church organisations.

 

The very recent events in the Diocese of Chichester which have resulted in the convictions of numerous church officials for child sex abuse is just one example of the appalling church culture that has allowed sex offenders to operate for years within almost all dioceses throughout the country.

 

Whilst the Roman Catholic church still refuses to engage positively with the STOP CHURCH CHILD ABUSE campaign, the Church of England appears to be taking the first step along the road to acknowledgement of the scale of the problem, improving it’s procedures, engaging with a full public inquiry, and proper recompense for victims of clergy abuse.

 

Following exploratory talks with the C of E in March 2013, representatives of the STOP CHURCH CHILD ABUSE campaign have been invited to attend the church’s general synod at which a motion will be debated calling for the church to apologise for abuse and for failing to act properly.

 

It is hoped that the C of E is sincere in this new concern for the welfare of victims of abuse and that it will join our call for the Government to set up a public inquiry into clergy abuse.

 

The wording of the invitation to the synod is produced below:

“The purpose of this invitation is to attend a debate on a motion for the Church to apologise for abuse suffered and for failing to listen or act properly.

 This debate arises in response to the work of the Chichester Commissaries. In part, it is an opportunity for the Synod to hear from the safeguarding leads about the work we have already done in response to the commissaries’ reports. Further, it provides the opportunity for members to wrestle with the pain of this matter – the fact not only of abuse within the church, but of the failure of the church to listen or to act properly. This failure, as you well know, relates not just to listening to the victims or trying to provide appropriate support. It also relates to a failure to actively pursue reports about anyone who may pose a risk, including passing all information to the statutory authorities.

The Synod will be debating the appropriateness of offering an apology to victims for these failures. The Synod has done this once before, in relation to slavery, and much of the debate there was not about the core issue, but about whether or not a body such as General Synod can sensibly  offer an apology in circumstances like this. It is hard to predict what may arise on this occasion.

It will be important for us to stress at the debate, as we will in any surrounding publicity, that this is only a step along the road of engagement with victims / survivors.  We valued the discussion in February and look forward to moving on with you around the issues raised. Synod, whilst an important step, will only be one step in that engagement. In particular, since only Synod members are allowed to speak, your presence would be as observers rather than as contributors. We hope to develop a more reciprocal dialogue with you at a later date.”

 

This press release is sent by David Greenwood, chairman of  STOP CHURCH CHILD ABUSEDavid.greenwood@jordanssolicitors.co.uk

(Tel: 01924 868911)

Further information is available from :-

Anne Lawrence (MACSAS) - anne1mary@hotmail.com - 020 7269 7980

Graham Wilmer (The lantern project) lanternproject@yahoo.co.uk 0151 630 6956

Pete Saunders (NAPAC) – peter@napac.org.uk – 0203 176 0557

Richard Scorer, Pannone LLP – Richard.Scorer@pannone.co.uk - 0800 840 4929

Sue Cox – sue.cox@survivorsvoice-europe.org

The call for a public enquiry is supported by:

Ministry and Clergy Sexual Abuse Survivors (MACSAS),

National Association of People Abused in Care (NAPAC),

The Lantern Project,

Survivors Voice-europe.org,

National Secular Society,

Esther Rantzen (Childline),

Medical Secular Forum

Survivors West Yorkshire,

Simon Hughes MP,

William Chapman (Barrister), 7 Bedford Row,

Susannah Johnson, Barrister, 7 Bedford Row,

Association of Child Abuse Lawyers (ACAL).

Question It!

There is a lot that we could question about the weather this morning, but as that is not within our remit (unless it magically happens to coincide with a family related matter), we shall just stick to our twirly whirly questions about all things family in the news this week, for your cranial pleasure.

As the social work sector becomes more and more strained, with fewer social workers with enough experience being available, the system is beginning to show signs of imminent collapse, and it will be, as always, the children who suffer the most as a result. Our question to you this week then, is just this:

With the system under attack for lack of staff, dwindling resources and a distinct lack of overall awareness (or perhaps acceptance) at the top within the sector in relation to the urgent need to give it an overhaul, should the current model of social work and court work in family cases be completely abandoned in favour of another model or should we continue with the attempted renovation? 

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Happy Father’s Day!!!!!!

We don’t really need an excuse to celebrate the wonder and delight that is parenting, and whilst this day is really a commercial ploy to make people buy cards and help the economy spin a little faster, we’ll bite and wish fathers all around the world a super-duper day!

In honour of dads everywhere, including our own, we thought we’d add a little music, poetry and story telling to our post, all with a Daddy-esque theme for your enjoyment and entertainment. Daddies are very special people, and for those of us who are lucky enough to have father figures in our lives, those experiences are etched in our memories, and recalled with fondness. Whether your father is your biological dad, your adopted dad, your step dad, a loving uncle or friend who has loved and supported you through difficult and delightful times, this post is for them. Happy Father’s Day, Dads, whoever and wherever you are…

Do you want some Daddy Cool songs? Then this is the place for you…. From a very sweet blog called The Art of Manliness, comes a compilation of their top ten songs about fathers, and we have to say, we love them all…

From the ever gorgeous Poetry Foundation, and one of our favourite websites, comes their pick of the best poems about Dads. We thought you might like them, too….

And if you haven’t filled your boots yet with all things Fatherish, we thought you might like some of these gorgeous stories about why these men wanted to be fathers, and what being a Dad means to them….

Happy Father’s Day!!!!!!

DadsHouse Makes The News Ahead of Father’s Day

One of our favourite father’s organisations, DadsHouse, has been featured in The Sun today ahead of Father’s Day, to help raise awareness of the issues facing single dads all over the country, and in the article, founder and campaigner, Billy McGranaghan describes the obstacles he faced when bringing up his son on his own and what subsequently motivated him to set up DadsHouse.

DadsHouse is dedicated to helping fathers who have found themselves on their own, whether through separation, divorce or bereavement, and offers a range of support from counselling, football nights and even cookery classes for dads and their kids. DadsHouse made waves in the House of Lords in 2012 when it launched its ground breaking photographic tour “In Dad’s Shoes”, which has featured young and aspiring photographers and more recently renowned photographer, Harry Borden. The photos are intimate portraits of single and lone fathers (families where mum is not present either through bereavement or separation) with their children, and make for breath-taking viewing. Since its launch, “In Dad’s Shoes” has been visited by thousands of people, travelled all over the country, even as far as The Scottish Parliament and is still going strong.

DadsHouse’s work and the exhibition are supported by the Department for Work and Pensions and has a growing following in the House of Lords and the House of Commons, including Lord Speaker, Baroness D’Souza, The Earl of Listowel and Maria Miller, MP,  Secretary of State for Culture, Media and Sport and Minister for Women and Equalities.

Why do we love DadsHouse so much? As an enterprise it is genuinely focused on putting children first, all-embracing, women and mum-friendly, charismatic and progressive and soft like a pussycat….. and Billy’s own story is nothing short of heroic. Grab a copy of The Sun today, turn to page 36, and check out what we mean…

You can follow DadsHouse on Facebook here or catch The Man himself, on Twitter.

Children and Families Bill – House of Lords Adventure Begins

That was ever so sneaky of the Parliament website…. one moment we’re told the report from the committee on the Bill is out and the next, The House of Lords appear to have hosted the first reading of The Bill, all without prior notification, yesterday…. (Although this may have been because nothing terribly exciting happened during the first reading – the Bill was read through and then ordered to be printed. You at the back, stop snoring).

The Bill then, is now scheduled to have its second reading on the 2nd July, but you can catch all the action of the last couple of days below:

Some notes on the Bill and other things:

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Domestic Violence Extended – Early Case Studies: Part Ten

This is a case study which follows a live case as it makes its way through the family courts, post the extended working definition of domestic violence (which is not a legal definition). The new definition includes emotional duress and coercion, as well as physical harm.

Mina doesn’t understand why she has to have a parenting assessment and wonders whether she can challenge the court’s request that she have one. She has taken care of her children for several years, the children do well at school and all their medical records are up to date, each one having been numerous times to the doctor for vaccinations and standard check ups.

No one has had the time to explain to her that the court needs a certain kind of evidence to confirm her parenting abilities and that if she refuses to be assessed, the court will not only view this in a negative light, but may also penalise her in some way. The former is easier to explain than the latter, because the latter is just sheer bloody mindedness, which should play no part in the process, but which sadly, is integral to it, most of the time.

Mina now understands why the assessment is necessary and her desire to co-operate with the Local Authority and everyone involved in her case is still earnest. She decides not to challenge the decision.

The Local Authority were supposed to organise the parenting assessment last week, but Mina has not heard anything from them. There is a tight deadline to get the assessment done and processed and the LA are running behind. Other professionals in the case are also concerned by the LA’s slow response to the timetable, a problem that has been a feature throughout the case. No one has even called Mina to try to arrange a time for the assessment.

But she is concerned by something else, too.

The Local Authority have just had a psychiatric assessment done on Mina and it has come back with a rather positive outlook. Mina is not unwell nor is she suffering from any kind of mental illness, but the Local Authority want to have another psychiatric report along the same lines but with a different psychiatrist. Mina would like to know if she can challenge the need for a second report.

The need to push back from time to time is not because Mina wishes to be awkward or because she has something to hide. The constant fear of waiting on assessments is causing her anxiety and the poor organisation of the Local Authority is playing a large part. Mina does not know about the new guidelines which have come into force which require the courts to cut down on expert reports and once she finds out about these, she decides to speak with her solicitor to find out if the second report is necessary and if not, whether it falls foul of the new guidelines.

Will the Local Authority get in touch in time to organise the court ordered assessments and is it too late to challenge the need for a second report by a psychiatrist? In a world where efficiency is essential, it also appears to be something of an enigma.

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Children and Families Bill 2012-13 to 2013-14 Update

This just in from Parliament central; sitting and publications for your perusal below….

A quick recap lifted off Parliament’s website tells us that the Children and Families Bill seeks to reform legislation relating to the following areas:

  • adoption and children in care
  • aspects of the family justice system
  • children and young people with special educational needs
  • the Office of the Children’s Commissioner for England
  • statutory rights to leave and pay for parents and adopters
  • time off work for ante-natal care
  • the right to request flexible working

 

The Bill has just finished its journey through the House of Commons so its next stop will be the House of Lords. You can check out all the previous stages of the Bill here.

And for the Sittings and Report:

We very much hope the Lords will give this Bill a hard time – there’s lots that needs to be de-kinked…..

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